Life always surprises you - Big or small
yes it does, the only thing is you have to be ready and feel and savor those times. one day i got a whats app message from a lady saying that she is unmarried and wants to marry me . it was bizarre at that moment but when i saw the DP the face was looking familiar, but couldn't recall the voice or any other thing. later, she revealed that she was my 10th classmate then i remembered. it has been more than 15 years and it started fading their faces. later for almost two days i questioned many times - what confidence went into her to message me and ask just like that and expects me remember her . if i were in her place i would have not done that. she was even talking about the crushes i had or the girls who had crush on me at that time. i just laughed out loud after so many days , i don't know what to say and how to react - now a days relationships are like a soap bubble and never know when it burst and i just cant believe her innocence.
Don't Assume anything - Always confirm
As i have been chatting with her mostly general and nothing of important. she shared her kids pics and told me that they are studying so and so but i never asked her what is her husband. one day she has changed her DP with a an handsome man. i assumed that it is her husband. don't know why i felt a pang of jealousy at that moment . she is not a beauty and nor a studious person in the school, still she got a good husband and living happly i thought. i told her that your husband is an handsome guy. i got replay that it is her brother and its his birthday that day. It was a tongue in cheek moment for me. i read so many books and normally people tell me that i got this philosophical touch with a good intelligence. but i could not even think more than that.the reason being i have never encountered anyone doing the same and before that she had her sons DP. i assumed that next was her husbands . So, always we should confirm before we assume anything. you should sense, smell, hear and see by yourself . If it is a particular pattern in someones life or something that need not be the same with the others or things.
Ladies always intriguing
As my chatting and sharing some imp details about my life and hers continuing , i didn't see where it is going as i am unmarried and she is married with two kids . so, i kept the conversations to normal things and never crossed the limit to intimate details and just seen her as a friend nothing more than that. i never thought about her expectations out of it. One day , while we are chatting, she told me that her husband is smiling , i asked why so? i was informed that he found this conversation of mine in the whats app funny. i was like , what the Fuck ? i asked her how did he know it?. she casually told me i show our conversations to him daily brother. first time she spelled that word BROTHER. i was shocked that she was showing the conversations to her hubby and later she disclosed that most of the times he is beside her while she is sending the texts to me. first time i thanked god that all these days i didn't say anything inappropriate. second thing is that i never wanted to be her brother nor wanted to be a secret lover as well. it was just a casual conversations and treated her as a friend. when i see the things now, i never started this conversation with her. i never texted her in a day to her thinking that she is a family person and you never know what she is doing at that particular time. As like the first message to ask me to marry her and that other message of making me her brother and involving her hubby to the conversations looked more bizarre than anything else
yes it does, the only thing is you have to be ready and feel and savor those times. one day i got a whats app message from a lady saying that she is unmarried and wants to marry me . it was bizarre at that moment but when i saw the DP the face was looking familiar, but couldn't recall the voice or any other thing. later, she revealed that she was my 10th classmate then i remembered. it has been more than 15 years and it started fading their faces. later for almost two days i questioned many times - what confidence went into her to message me and ask just like that and expects me remember her . if i were in her place i would have not done that. she was even talking about the crushes i had or the girls who had crush on me at that time. i just laughed out loud after so many days , i don't know what to say and how to react - now a days relationships are like a soap bubble and never know when it burst and i just cant believe her innocence.
Don't Assume anything - Always confirm
As i have been chatting with her mostly general and nothing of important. she shared her kids pics and told me that they are studying so and so but i never asked her what is her husband. one day she has changed her DP with a an handsome man. i assumed that it is her husband. don't know why i felt a pang of jealousy at that moment . she is not a beauty and nor a studious person in the school, still she got a good husband and living happly i thought. i told her that your husband is an handsome guy. i got replay that it is her brother and its his birthday that day. It was a tongue in cheek moment for me. i read so many books and normally people tell me that i got this philosophical touch with a good intelligence. but i could not even think more than that.the reason being i have never encountered anyone doing the same and before that she had her sons DP. i assumed that next was her husbands . So, always we should confirm before we assume anything. you should sense, smell, hear and see by yourself . If it is a particular pattern in someones life or something that need not be the same with the others or things.
Ladies always intriguing
As my chatting and sharing some imp details about my life and hers continuing , i didn't see where it is going as i am unmarried and she is married with two kids . so, i kept the conversations to normal things and never crossed the limit to intimate details and just seen her as a friend nothing more than that. i never thought about her expectations out of it. One day , while we are chatting, she told me that her husband is smiling , i asked why so? i was informed that he found this conversation of mine in the whats app funny. i was like , what the Fuck ? i asked her how did he know it?. she casually told me i show our conversations to him daily brother. first time she spelled that word BROTHER. i was shocked that she was showing the conversations to her hubby and later she disclosed that most of the times he is beside her while she is sending the texts to me. first time i thanked god that all these days i didn't say anything inappropriate. second thing is that i never wanted to be her brother nor wanted to be a secret lover as well. it was just a casual conversations and treated her as a friend. when i see the things now, i never started this conversation with her. i never texted her in a day to her thinking that she is a family person and you never know what she is doing at that particular time. As like the first message to ask me to marry her and that other message of making me her brother and involving her hubby to the conversations looked more bizarre than anything else
